Gaz wrote:Wow, you know nothing about addiction. It is literally a disease. Do you loose respect for people who die of cancer as well?
Fair enough shot Gaz. Perhaps it's because I've seen some cases up close, not just on TV or in the paper. People who I've worked with, some even lived in the same house. It IS an ugly scene. But I'm of the opinion that people CAN pull their socks up, get straight and keep it that way. Two examples, one bad, one good, and I could give many more but for brevity's sake I'll keep it to 2.
1. Just had an old acquaintance - def. not a friend - kick the bucket Jan 1. Must have been a helluva new years eve party. He was "proud to be a junkie". Total party animal. Purposely irresponsible. Not only that, he had a job in the local school district and claimed he sold drugs to kids and swapped drugs for sex. Somehow he never got caught. Respect? Fooey! Not for him.
2. Aging jazz guitarist, @ 77 years old. An amazing talent. And another old - this time friend. Late 50's to mid 60's he got on the junk. Because "everyone was doing it" in his talent circle. Plenty of name brand musicians who you would recognize in an instant. And by dint of will he got off and stayed clean to this day. There were no drug treatment programs then. It was go to jail or the grave and he did the right thing. Life is sweet and he's enjoying it. Him, I can respect.
There's all sorts of cases and I'm not 100% either way on the subject of this thread. However I AM very unimpressed by the shilly-shallying of the so-called authorities who claim they "still don't know" what killed the guy. Baloney to that. Also no respect to the law authorities in my area who know perfectly well who's dealing hard dope of all sorts and let them get away with it year after year. After all "ya hafta keep the game going."
What did it say on those T-shirts back in the 80's? In foot-high letters?
CHOOSE LIFE
We can find it within ourselves to do that. And reach out for help if you need it, it's there. Some of my customers got sorted out thru NA, some thru AA, and some both. How many times I've heard "I'd be dead by now if I hadn't." Those who think they're "bad ass" and that's their thrill, "don't tell me how to run my life," you know where they are headed.
Not just a matter of attitude, I understand addiction on a molecular level. Nerve cells set up receptors for opiates and other chemicals, and wreak havoc until they're satisfied. It takes a lot of will power to overcome that. A person who's trying to kick any of the 'bad habits' has to take the attitude of "I'm in charge", "I" being the prefrontal cortex, not every nerve cell in the body.
It's a complex problem and involves cultural acceptance as well as individual choice & control. Caffeine is "perfectly OK." Alcohol, definitely an addictive drug, not only accepted but taxed and a source of revenue for governments. Tobacco, slowly losing its acceptance but also taxed heavily.
With respect to YOU Gaz, you're entitled to your opinion and I'm happy you spoke up.
down technical blind alleys . . .